bryaneasy 5 I wasn't looking for a 'soft as sink into the mattress' bed as these will over time wreck your shoulders or hurt your back, IMO you want something that is firm but has that soft top on it, and this hits the mark perfectly, feels exactly like my mattress I bought in Australia for $800 AUD, and this thing costs... like $280 AUD? absolute steal. Though it is extremely heavy, so just get the courier guy to lug it up the stairs for you lol.I initially took a gamble on it just reading some of the reviews the JP folks left. Though hopefully this describes what you are looking for exactly.